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Hi, my name is Makayla Andrus. For couples struggling with infertility it can be hard to define or determine what a family is or what it means to them. For the last 18 months my husband I have personally felt this pain and struggle. I write to bring answers and comfort to those facing these same or similar challenges. 

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