A Family and Infertility

Infertility could lead a couple to getting a divorce. When I have told people about the journey that my husband and I have been on I will often tell them that I am so grateful that we have always looks at this struggle as something that we are going through together and it was never one persons fault, it was just something that we had to work through just like any other marital problem you could face. The inability to have children so far has really brought us closer together as we have struggled together. This could have been something that really tore us apart or made us resent the other person. I am so grateful that this was never a thought that I, or my husband had.  Most people who get divorced later will say that they wished they would have stayed and worked on the marriage and stayed together. This could be for a variety of reasons, but I think that most people realize that they could of had it so good if they would have just worked a little bit harder. No marriage is easy and t

Parenting is no easy task. When struggling to start a family it is hard not to judge and ponder what kind of parent you will be and how you want to raise your kids. You might fantasize about all the moments you might one day have with your children. You might even find yourself watching other parents with upset children and wish anything that you could have an upset child with you. The reality is that no matter how long you think about those situations when you are finally there it isn't any easier than you might have once thought. There are so many things we can do to prepare for parenthood and no matter your circumstance they are important things to do. There are so many types of situations that you will run into as a parent and each one will take practice and patience on your part.  One thing that I think is important to think about is that as parent you will make mistakes. That is inevitable. But what you do after that mistake could make all the difference. Something that could